MODULE 10: Making Disciples — Meeting 3
Meeting 3
DISCUSS Alan Hirsch’s message on Missional Velocity using the guide below:
Discussion
Questions
1. Hirsch explains that the longer we are a part of a church community, the more our meaningful connections with people outside of the church tend to fade. Have you observed this in your own life? If so, how? How does this get Jesus’ mission to seek and save the lost “backwards”?
2. Hirsch says the gospel spreads on relational grounds. What does this mean?
3. Hirsch explained the concept of “Cultural Distance.” Who are you most equipped to reach in the world? People from other cultures? Or people from your own? Certainly, we can and should evangelize anyone we can, but where does it make the most sense to focus our attention in daily life?
Have you ever observed Christians who are eager to reach people outside of their culture but avoid evangelizing those closest to them? Or have you ever done this in your own life? Why do you think this happens?
4. To be missional is simply to live on purpose as a disciple sent to make disciples in the midst of everyday life. We follow Jesus and do what he is doing right here, right now. Hirsch says, “The church is a sent people. There is no such thing as an unsent Christian; we are all missionaries. Therefore, we are under obligation to take the message out to where people are at.” Did anyone ever come and meet you where you were at? What difference did it make in your life?
5. Many people are interested in God, Jesus, or spirituality, but they feel differently about church. Have you ever felt the same way? Do you observe this in the people around you? How?
6. Hirsch explains that growing, healthy churches can have a strong, powerful impact, but institutions can’t possibly reach everyone, or bring every person into their doors. What is the most effective way to be reached with the gospel? By a church advertisement, or a person you know? What does this mean for your everyday life as a disciple?
7. The best way to meet Jesus is through a Jesus-follower. The answer to reaching the lost, it seems, is not to create bigger, better churches, but healthier, holier disciples.
Why is it tempting to focus on nicer buildings or programs, instead of on creating healthy Jesus followers?
How does focusing on making healthy, holy disciples impact church communities?
8. If we are living as missionaries right here in our everyday life, we need to be with people, know them, and learn from them. Rather than presume everyone should conform to how we live out our faith, we understand that there are many diverse expressions of faith within the church, and we shouldn’t have to give up all of our cultural connections to be welcomed into a faith community. We don’t all have to look and act the same way, and yet there are many things that should be consistent throughout the Body of Christ.
What are some examples of negotiables and non-negotiables when it comes to living as a disciple? What things should be evident in every believer’s life? What kinds of practices will vary? Why do we need both unity and diversity in the church?
9. It’s easy to get confused when Christians talk about things like discipleship, or living missionally. Let’s keep it simple. Come up with your own clear definitions below:
What is a disciple?
What does it mean to live on mission with Jesus?
ASSIGNMENT: If you haven’t done so already, invite someone onto the Discipleship Pathway
this week. Come ready to discuss any updates or questions you may have with your disciple next week.
What Does It Mean to Be Missional?
"Missional" is simply a way of describing a life lived on purpose as someone sent by God. Jesus said, "As the Father has sent me, I am sending you" (John 20:21). Every disciple is sent — not only pastors or overseas missionaries. Being missional means following Jesus and joining what he is doing right where we are: in our neighbourhoods, workplaces, schools, gyms and families. As Alan Hirsch puts it, there is no such thing as an unsent Christian.
Why Relationships Matter So Much
Hirsch points out that the gospel spreads along relational lines. Most people come to faith through a friend, family member or co-worker who follows Jesus. Yet the longer many of us are part of a church, the fewer meaningful friendships we have outside of it. Our calendars fill with church activities and our closest friends are other believers. That is not wrong in itself, but it can quietly reduce our opportunities to share Jesus with people who do not yet know him.
Practical Ways to Live on Mission
Map your relationships. Write down the people you see regularly who do not follow Jesus.
Be present in one place. Choose a café, park, club or community group and show up consistently.
Eat with people. Meals are one of the most natural ways to build friendships (see Module 8: Hospitality).
Serve your neighbours. Look for practical needs you can meet.
Pray daily for the people you are sent to. Ask God to open doors for conversation.
Tell your story. Be ready to share what Jesus has done in your life, with gentleness and respect.
Invite people into community. Include friends in small groups, meals and church events when the time is right.
Cultural Distance
Hirsch also talks about "cultural distance" — how far someone’s background, values and experiences are from our own. We are often best equipped to reach people close to us culturally, such as friends, co-workers and neighbours. At the same time, Scripture calls us to cross cultural lines, as Philip did with the Ethiopian official in Acts 8. Healthy discipleship includes both: faithful witness to the people closest to us and a willingness to move toward those who are different.
For the Discipler
Help your disciple identify two or three specific people or places where they sense God is sending them. Talk about what it would look like to be more intentional there this month. Remind them that the next step — inviting someone to be discipled — is a natural extension of missional living.
Looking Ahead
Before Meeting 4, invite someone onto the Pathway. Keep the invitation simple and personal, and trust God with the result.
Continue the Pathway — You are in Module 10: Making Disciples, Meeting 3 of 4. Previous: Meeting 2 — Looking Back. Next: Meeting 4 — Inviting a Disciple. Every essay, worksheet and video for this module is collected on the Module 10 resources page.